Asking for a Pregnant Friend
Exploring the taboo parenting, pregnancy, and childbirth topics that make many parents blush.
Exploring the taboo parenting, pregnancy, and childbirth topics that make many parents blush.
Episodes

Sep 12, 2024
Sep 12, 2024
15 min
Learn more about how to Egg Donor Agency Fee is calculated.

Sep 5, 2024
Sep 5, 2024
5 min
Join Bailey Gaddis as she explains the family risk assessment or genetic assessment required by clinics. Learn what to expect during the call with a genetic counselor, including the types of questions you'll be asked about your family's medical history and how this information is used to assess potential risks for future children.
Bailey also shares tips on how to prepare for this straightforward and informative call, ensuring you understand the results of your genetic carrier screening. Whether you're an egg donor or simply curious about the process, this episode provides valuable insights into the beautiful underbelly of making, growing, and raising babies.

Aug 29, 2024
The Intricacies of Egg Donor Fees
Aug 29, 2024
Aug 29, 2024
5 min
In this episode, host Bailey Gaddis explores the complex world of egg donation fees. Discover how donor fees are calculated, the factors that influence these fees, and how agencies work with both donors and intended parents to find a fair and reasonable compensation. Gain insights from industry experts and hear real stories from brave women who have gone through the process.

Aug 22, 2024
Navigating Egg Donation: A Step-by-Step Guide
Aug 22, 2024
Aug 22, 2024
12 min
In this episode, we break down the egg donation process, a common query at my donation and surrogacy agency, Graceful Beginnings. From selecting a donor profile to navigating legal and medical evaluations, we cover every step intended parents need to know. Whether you're looking for fresh or frozen eggs, we guide you through the psychological evaluations, genetic screenings, and escrow account setup. Learn about the importance of having an open mind when choosing a donor and the detailed logistics of the egg retrieval process. This episode is a comprehensive guide for anyone considering moving forward with donor eggs.

Aug 15, 2024
Aug 15, 2024
6 min
If you are an egg donor and you have been matched with intended parents, this episode is for you. You'll learn about the genetic carrier screening, family risk assessment, and psychological evaluation that you'll undergo. If those results are favorable, you'll move on to a medical evaluation at the intended parents' clinic. Expect a two-hour visit that includes a urinalysis, an ultrasound, a blood test, and possibly a physical. You'll meet the fertility doctor and nurse coordinator, who will guide you through the medication and injection process. This episode ensures you leave with a solid understanding of the next steps and your responsibilities.

Aug 8, 2024
Aug 8, 2024
8 min
Join Bailey Gaddis as she provides expert tips and personal insights on creating a list of criteria, accessing donor databases, and keeping an open mind throughout the search. Whether you're working with an agency or consulting specialized services, Bailey's guidance aims to make your journey smoother and more informed.

Aug 1, 2024
The Joys and Rewards of Egg Donation
Aug 1, 2024
Aug 1, 2024
8 min
One of the primary benefits of egg donation is the profound impact you can have on another person's life. It's a purely altruistic act that helps someone start their family. In addition to changing lives, egg donors gain an in-depth understanding of their reproductive health through ultrasounds and blood work, as well as insights into their genetics via genetic carrier screening. Mental health evaluations and family risk assessments further illuminate personal and familial medical histories.
Donors receive generous compensation, with first-time donors starting at $10,000. Subsequent cycles see increased fees, ensuring fair payment for donors and intended parents. Out-of-town donors also get to explore new cities with all expenses paid, including airfare, accommodations, and a daily food allowance.

Jul 25, 2024
Jul 25, 2024
7 min
Learn about the importance of detailed and authentic answers, the impact of flattering photos, and more in the Egg Donor Profile. Bailey also offers insights into what intended parents are looking for and how to present yourself in the best light. Tune in for practical advice that can increase your chances of being selected as an egg donor.

Jul 18, 2024
Jul 18, 2024
9 min
In this episode, I am here to demystify all of the costs involved in egg donation. Whether you are an egg donor or an intended parent, I break down the various expenses you may encounter. From agency fees to travel coordination, psychological evaluations to legal fees, I cover it all. Get a clear understanding of what to expect financially and tips on how to manage these costs effectively.

Jul 11, 2024
Jul 11, 2024
5 min
Are you someone who is fascinated by all the pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood stuff few people talk about because they're too embarrassed? If so, welcome to the motherload of all things taboo, or at least really wild and interesting. The Asking for a Pregnant Friend podcast is based off the book of the same name and dives into all of the pregnancy, birth, and mothering topics that make many people blush or scratch their heads. I do all the boring research so you don't have to and bring you interviews with the leading experts in the topics I cover. I also share all the things about myself, Bailey Gaddis. I'm all about TMI. You'll also hear stories from brave women who gave permission to have their stories shared. So come along, my friend, on a journey into the beautiful underbelly of making, growing, and raising babies.
Pretty much all of us have heard about postpartum depression, but something that many women aren't as familiar with is perinatal depression. This episode sheds light on this condition, which develops during pregnancy due to hormonal shifts, life changes, and genetic factors. Learn about the subtle symptoms that can be easily mistaken for typical pregnancy experiences, and understand when it is crucial to seek professional help. We discuss the importance of talking to your care provider if you feel persistently sad, overwhelmed, or if these feelings impact your quality of life.
If your doctor suspects perinatal depression, they may refer you to a mental health specialist and potentially recommend safe medications. Remember, support and relief are available, and you don't have to suffer in silence. Tune in to gain insights and practical advice on navigating perinatal depression.
Are you newly pregnant and overwhelmed by the prospect of navigating this journey? Are you hoping to find calm, empowerment, and transformation but don't know how to make that happen? Enter the book Feng Shui Mommy, Creating Balance and Harmony for Blissful Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood. This holistic companion offers in-depth guidance through all four trimesters, providing specific suggestions for mind, body, and spirit nourishment. Welcome delight and curiosity into your journey while embracing each phase with purpose and calm. Get your copy from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, and other major retailers.
About
Are you fascinated by all the parenting, pregnancy, and childbirth stuff few people talk about because they’re too embarrassed? If so, welcome to the motherload of all things taboo, wild and super interesting.
The Asking for a Pregnant Friend podcast is based off the book of the same name and dives into all the parenting, pregnancy, and birthing topics that make many people blush, or scratch their heads.
My hope is that every time you listen you’re relieved to find information about one of the questions you didn’t think other people had, feel more connected to the worldwide community of soon-to-be parents and new parents, and find peace as you become informed about the aspects of your journey most shy away from.
This is like the modern day Dear Abbey for pregnant people and new parents, or just curious people, who want to get straight, yet loving, answers to the parenting, pregnancy, and childbirth questions they’re too afraid to ask.
Many of the episodes are intentionally short so you can listen to the full shebang on the way to a prenatal appointment, or coming home from dropping the kids off at school.
New episodes every Tuesday and Thursday.

Meet Bailey
Podcast host Bailey Gaddis is a mother and author of Asking for a Pregnant Friend: 101 Answers to Questions Women Are Too Embarrassed to Ask About Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood and Feng Shui Mommy: Creating Balance and Harmony for Blissful Pregnancy, Childbirth, and Motherhood.
She is also a Certified Parenting Coach, Hypnotherapist, Certified Birthing Doula, HypnoBirthing® Practitioner, HypnoMothering® Practitioner, a founding member of the Ojai Valley Birth Collective, past IVF coordinator, and contributor for Working Mother, Fit Pregnancy, Pregnancy and Newborn, Disney’s parenting site Babble, Elephant Journal, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Woman’s Day, Good Housekeeping, Scary Mommy, Natural Solutions, Natural Mother, Your Tango, American Baby, Green Child, Huffington Post, and more.
Bailey supports families navigating cancer by volunteering her Hypnotherapy services at the cancer resource center, Ojai Cares. In addition, Bailey volunteers for the Parent Care Program at Secure Beginnings where she offers in-home support to parents of newborn babies.
She lives in Ojai, California, with her husband, son + daughter.
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